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No one has the right to hurt you.
Childhelp stays informed of the scientific research about adolescent brain development, trauma-responsive care, and the importance of normalcy on the well-being of young people. You deserve safety, peace, and the tools to feel secure. That is why we’ve created this space for YOU to learn more about what makes you who you are, how you can be empowered with knowledge, and ways you can live up to your limitless potential.
Sometimes, a cell phone or laptop can be your lifeline. Technology is an important part of normalcy for teens, and the purpose of the Childhelp text/chat hotline and this website is to provide access to information, education, and emotional support in a safe and confidential environment. Whether you are researching for a friend, trying to learn more about an issue weighing on your heart, or just need a helpful voice on the other end of the line, we are here for you.
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What is Grounding?
Grounding techniques are strategies that can help a person manage their traumatic memories or strong emotions. Learn more…
What is Gaslighting?
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where a person or group makes someone question their sanity, perception of reality, or memories. Learn more…
What is Toxic Stress?
Toxic stress is overwhelming and causes us to relive the feelings of fear, anxiety, and negative emotions connected to past or present traumatic experiences. Learn more…
Maybe you have some questions…
Who do I report child abuse to?
How do I know if I am being emotionally abused?
I want to go live with my friend’s parents/other family, can I do that?
What will happen if I run away?
Can my parents take away my devices?
Yes, parents do have a right to take away devices or determine privileges.
When can I be emancipated?
I have a friend online and I think they are being abused, but I do not know where they live. How can I help them?
If you gather more information such as the state they live in, the school they attend, or their address, then we can help you find the appropriate agency to make a report to. You could also try to encourage your friend to talk to a safe adult (relative, teacher, coach) or encourage them to contact the hotline so that a counselor can help them explore their options in a safe and confidential way.
Will my parents go to jail?
Will I be put in foster care if I make a report?
Do I have to give my name when I call Child Protective Services (CPS)?
Many states will take an anonymous report, but it would be important to ask that question when you call. If they do not allow anonymous reporting, you can also ask how your identity can be kept confidential.
I’m a minor and an adult online just sent me some pornographic pictures, what do I do?
This is illegal and there are a few things that you can do. Depending on the platform you are on, you should report the person/profile directly to the site you are on. If you know who they are you can contact the local authorities. If you do not know their identity, you can contact The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children at 1-800-843-5678 or fill out an online form at cybertip.org.
This can be a scary situation to handle, so reaching out to an adult that you trust is also recommended.
I sent someone private pictures of myself but now they are threatening to post them on the internet/tell my parents unless I send more, what do I do?
Will Child Protective Services (CPS) do anything if my parents are on drugs?
I think a neighbor is abusing their kids, do I call the police or Child Protective Services (CPS)?
I am over the age of 18 but I still live in a home with my parents and they are abusive, what can I do?
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Mental Health Apps
Digital media and technology are often lifelines for many teens and young adults. There has been an increase in the number of digital health tools available, particularly related to mental health. While none of these are designed to replace therapy when needed, here are some apps that could be useful tools for individuals seeking additional support using available technology.
The apps here are not affiliated with or specifically endorsed by Childhelp. This list is an example of the various options that are available publicly; please use your discretion to determine the app that best meets your needs.
Description: Mindshift offers anxiety relief strategies and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) tools to help reduce worry, stress, and panic. The app offers techniques like writing in journals, building fear ladders, and doing comfort zone challenges. The app also offers goals setting, progress check-ins, practice mindful techniques, calming audio.
Ages: Green icon is for ages 4-11, the blue icon is for ages 11-17, and the red icon is for adults 18+.
Price: The younger children and young people version of the apps are free. However, the adult version (red app) is $2.99.
Description: Through the power of positive thinking, HappiMe focuses on increasing self-esteem, self-confidence, and overall happiness. Great for children and adults.
Description: The Calm Harm app can help support a teen resist or manage the urge to self-harm using evidence-based therapy principles of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) focusing on Comfort, Distract, Express Yourself, Release, Random and Breathe activities. You can personalise the app to track your progress and changes.
Price: Free (Paid version available)
Description: Sanvello offers therapy, coaching, self-care tools, and a supportive community. Sanvello uses clinically proven techniques based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma-related conditions, and daily stressors.
Price: Free (Paid version available)
Description: This app uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance Commitment Therapy methods to help users cope with depression, anxiety, anger, stress, and more. The app also allows users to create a passcode for safety and security purposes.
Description: Woebot can help you with thinking through situations with step-by-step guidance from Woebot using tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) through a 24/7 quick chat. Woebot sends over a million messages per week to help users with everyday stress and challenges.
Price: Free (Paid therapy available)
Description: Talkspace can match you with a licensed therapist in your state from the comfort of your device through text, audio, and video at any time, and they will respond daily, 5x/week. If you’re looking for the “face-to-face” therapy experience, this app offers Live Video Sessions so you and your therapist can plan to connect in real-time.
Price: Free (Counseling services may require additional costs)
Description: The BetterHelp app is a convenient way to get professional help from licensed therapists and counselors online. BetterHelp counselors can cover a wide range of areas from depression and anxiety to family and couples therapy. A counselor will be matched based on your needs. Message your therapist anytime from anywhere. No scheduling needed.
Description: My3 allows one to stay connected to their network when in a time of crisis. You can be prepared to help yourself and reach out to others when you are feeling suicidal. The app offers services that allow you to create your own support system, create a safety plan, get support, and allows 24/7 access to the National Suicide Hotline.
Description: This mood journal offers a simple solution for tracking your thoughts, feelings and moods in this interactive tool you can keep right on your phone! Add details to your entry by writing, recording your voice, or attaching a photo about what’s going on. You can review a report of your tracked moods over a period of time, and get tips on ways improve your mood!
Description: Mindful Gnats is an app designed to teach young people simple mindfulness and relaxation skills. It can be used to help mindfulness practice when playing the Mindful Gnats desktop game or as a stand alone aid to mindful practice. These skills can help to reduce stress, and improve awareness of your body, mind and world.
Description: SmilingMind is a modern daily mindfulness and meditation guide app for young people. It is a free web and App-based program, designed by psychologists and educators to help bring balance to young lives. Smiling Mind is aimed at helping young people de-stress and stay calm. There are tailored programs for different age groups.
Price: Free (In-app purchases available)
Description: CBT Thought Diary can be used as a daily mood tracker. With this app, you can gradually change your approach to how you interpret the ups and downs of life, making long-lasting changes in your mental well-being.
Description: Atlas is a wellness journaling app dedicated to helping you live the good life through self-improvement via podcasts and journaling for teens. This app helps you pursue purpose, find connections, know your authentic self, and navigate an uncertain future.
Price: Free (In-app purchases available)
Description: Uplifting app providing evidence-based exercises, daily articles, and fun games with great graphics to help you overcome negative thoughts, set goals, and improve your mood.
Childhelp National Child Abuse hotline is one of many incredible organizations that can provide crisis referrals, confidential guidance, and warm support when you need some help. Reach out.
The Trevor Project – LGBTQ Youth helpline – 24/7 Phone, text, chat, social media support
The Trevor Project provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25. Contact by phone: 1-866-488-7386 or visit their website at thetrevorproject.org
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 24/7 Phone & online chat
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24/7. They can help friends and loved ones by providing resources, empowering individuals, and building awareness. Contact by phone: 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) or visit their website at suicidepreventionlifeline.org
National Domestic Violence Hotline – 24/7 Phone & online chat
The Hotline provides free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services to those affected by relationship abuse. Contact by phone: 1-800-799-7233 or visit their website at thehotline.org
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children – 24/7 Phone + Online report access
(NCMEC) is a comprehensive reporting center that assists with preventing child abductions, recovering missing children, and providing services to deter and combat child sexual exploitation. Contact by phone: 1-800-843-5678 or visit their website at missingkids.org
RAINN-Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network (Sexual Assault hotline) – 24/7 Phone & online chat
RAINN provides one-on-one support and resources to sexual assault victims, survivors, and their loved ones. Contact by phone: 1-800-656-4673 or visit their website at rainn.org
National Runaway Safeline – 24/7 Phone & online chat
The Runaway Safeline is free, anonymous, confidential hotline available to run away and homeless youth, their parents and families, teens in crisis, and others who might benefit from its services. Contact by phone: 1-800-786-2929 or visit their website at 1800runaway.org
National Human Trafficking Hotline – 24/7 Phone, text, & online chat + online report form
The Human Trafficking Hotline can help trafficking victims and survivors connect to the services and resources they need. Contact by phone: 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733 or visit their website at humantraffickinghotline.org
Boystown USA – Your Life Your Voice Helpline – 24/7 Phone & text
Boystown is a crisis, resource and referral hotline available to both parents and kids. They can offer kids and teens support, guidance and resources, and tips, parenting advice and resources to parents. Contact by phone: 1-800-448-3000 or text VOICE to 20121 or visit their website at boystown.org
StrongHearts Native Helpline – 24/7 Phone and chat
StrongHearts Native Helpline is a 24/7 safe, confidential and anonymous domestic, dating and sexual violence helpline for American Indians and Alaska Natives, offering culturally-appropriate support and advocacy. Contact by phone: 1-844-762-8483 or visit their website at strongheartshelpline.org
Love is Respect – National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline – 24/7 Phone, text, & online chat
The National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline offers confidential support for teens, young adults, and their loved ones seeking help, resources, or information related to healthy relationships and dating abuse. Contact by phone: 1-866-331-9474 or text LOVEIS to 22522 or visit their website at loveisrespect.org
LGBTQIA+ National Help Center
The LGBT Help Center serves the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning community by providing free and confidential peer support and local resources. Contact by phone on their Youth Talkline: 1-800-246-7743 or their All Ages Hotline: 1-888-843-4564 or visit their website at glbtnationalhelpcenter.org
Crisis Text Line – 24/7 Text
Crisis Text Line provides free mental health texting service through confidential crisis intervention via SMS message. Text HOME to 741741 or visit their website at crisistextline.org